At Over 40 Years Old - Do I Have to Cut My Hair Short?

To cut, or not to cut, that is the question!

When you're over 40, choosing the right hair style can be difficult. You don't want to look like you're trying to look young, and you definitely don't want to look like an old lady! So, what's a girl to do?

This girl called in the experts!

Style experts, Austin Kyle and Gia Comfort share their hair and beauty tips on the great, 40 and over haircut debate:

Tip #1: Consider Style First - Not Age

Women over 40 should consider going shorter based on style not age. It has become a custom that women go for shorter hairstyles as they get older.

Is 40 the magic number for this trend?

As a professional hairstylist I advise older women to take into consideration their own personal appearance. They must ask themselves, "Will a shorter hairstyle enhance or take away from my personal style?"

They should also ask, "Can I maintain the style of the haircut whether it is long or short?" Some hairstyles don't maintain their integrity once the client steps outside of the salon. So it's important to take into consideration the hairs texture, health and volume.

Lastly, the chosen length must complement their professional image and personal life in order to truly be satisfied with the end results.

Many women over 40 can in fact sport a chic shorter haircut for an empowering and modern look, if done right. For other women over 40, a shorter hairstyle can often achieve a more mature sophisticated look that can be construed as one being older. A shoulder length, face framing layered haircut is an exceptional style for older women who want a sexy youthful appearance. Seeking the direction from a professional hairstylist is a safe way to decide if you should go for a short cut when it comes to age and defying gravity.

Beauty Tips

When you walk into almost any department store and pass through the women’s department, there are skin care regimens for sale at every turn and most, if not all, of the sales people offer a chance to sit and enjoy a free demonstration on how fabulous skin can be yours. The demonstration likely includes many individual products that make up their specific skin care regimen and they don’t even include the basics, such as cleanser and toner. The tactics of these well-meaning sales professionals often leave customers feeling pressured by the training they get to earn their high commissions.

For example, a day time regimen might include a serum, a moisturizer and an anti-aging cream which may be one of those temporary wrinkle fix creams that are supposed to have a similar, albeit less drastic effect than Botox. Then comes an eye serum followed by a specialty eye cream. So, just as with fragrance, the idea the skin care industry is trying to promote is that you should layer your skin care products as well. Who has the money, time or inclination to participate in such complicated regimens?

If you want great skincare without the complications, here are some easy guidelines you can follow:

1) Start with skin care that is safe and non-toxic. Look for natural ingredients when possible. Many natural ingredients have better safety records than their commercially synthetic counterparts, but don't take this at face value. There are some natural ingredients which may not be safe, so do your homework. Research the ingredients that you choose to put on your skin. There are some organizations that rate the toxicity of skin care products that you can find on-line.

2) Go simple - try to avoid products that have over 25 ingredients listed on the product label. Remember, the more ingredients that go into a product, the greater your risk for irritation, allergic reactions or breakouts. Irritated skin with breakouts is not the look we are after. Going fragrance free will also reduce the risk of irritation and other possible reactions. These days, a typical ingredient panel often has 50 or more ingredients listed.

3) Keep your product count to a minimum--use only what you need to get the job done and no more. Find a high quality skin cream that combines anti-aging ingredients with great hydrating properties. This way you only need one product to accomplish both. Hyaluronic acid has great hydrating and anti-aging benefits. Some powerful anti-aging antioxidants include green tea, white tea, vitamin C, R-Lipoic Acid, pomegranate, and olive Leaf extract. You may also find that some skin creams can also double up as an eye cream. Streamlining will not only save you time, but your skin and pocket book will like you better for it as well. Always remember to include a good quality sunscreen/sun block with a minimum of SPF 15 if your skin cream does not include it in the formulation.

4) Always use pH balanced skin care - avoid using products that are too alkaline. They can strip skin, leaving it feeling taut and dry. You do not want to strip your skin's acid mantle which has a vital role in protecting your skin from bacteria and even possible infection.

5) Look for products that include natural oils - many are loaded with essential fatty acids, vitamins and antioxidants. Some lighter ones include sesame seed oil, apricot kernel oil and jojoba oil (which is similar to our skin's own sebum). Drier skins may prefer heavier oils such as macadamia, avocado, evening primrose, etc. Natural oils tend to absorb better than mineral oil, petroleum or lanolin. Some of the lighter oils can even be used by some oily skin types. If not, then you can always opt for oil-free. While many naturally based skin care companies use a variety of natural oils, you can find some that are oil-free. Just do a Google search and see what you come up with.

Skin Care does not need to be complicated, onerous and prohibitively expensive. Remember, less is more!

England Vs Irland, Only ODI, England win by 11 Runs(D/L)

England 201 for 8 (Trott 69, Morgan 59) beat Ireland 117 for 8 (Dernbach 3-30) by 11 runs - D/L

	Steven Finn took two early wickets as England won a scrappy game by 11 runs © Getty Images Enlarge
Related Links News : Morgan's victorious homecoming Players/Officials: Eoin Morgan | Paul Stirling | James Taylor Matches: Ireland v England at Dublin Series/Tournaments: England tour of Ireland Teams: England | Ireland

England's new-look one-day team exacted a measure of revenge for their predecessors who were vanquished in that thrilling World Cup fixture in Bangalore, as Ireland's spirited bid for back-to-back victories against their nearest neighbours was thwarted first by the weather and then by a canny diet of slower balls and yorkers from Jade Dernbach and Ravi Bopara.

In what effectively became a match within a match after two lengthy rain delays had eaten 35 overs out of the day's allocation, Ireland were left needing 87 from the final ten overs of their run-chase, having gone into the second interruption on 42 for 2 after 13, following the early loss of both openers to Steven Finn.

In what looked suspiciously like a tactical decision, Will Porterfield ran himself out off the second ball of the resumption, whereupon the hero of Bangalore, Kevin O'Brien, monstered consecutive sixes off the debutant spinner, Scott Borthwick, to give a patient Dublin crowd the treat they had all turned up to see, and to give England an early reminder of the damage he could cause, following that seminal 113 from 63 balls at the World Cup.

Steven Finn claimed two early wickets before the rain interrupted at Clontarf, Ireland v England, only ODI, Clontarf, August 25, 2011
Steven Finn took two early wickets as England won a scrappy game by 11 runs © Getty Images
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Related Links
News : Morgan's victorious homecoming
Players/Officials: Eoin Morgan | Paul Stirling | James Taylor
Matches: Ireland v England at Dublin
Series/Tournaments: England tour of Ireland
Teams: England | Ireland

England's new-look one-day team exacted a measure of revenge for their predecessors who were vanquished in that thrilling World Cup fixture in Bangalore, as Ireland's spirited bid for back-to-back victories against their nearest neighbours was thwarted first by the weather and then by a canny diet of slower balls and yorkers from Jade Dernbach and Ravi Bopara.

In what effectively became a match within a match after two lengthy rain delays had eaten 35 overs out of the day's allocation, Ireland were left needing 87 from the final ten overs of their run-chase, having gone into the second interruption on 42 for 2 after 13, following the early loss of both openers to Steven Finn.

In what looked suspiciously like a tactical decision, Will Porterfield ran himself out off the second ball of the resumption, whereupon the hero of Bangalore, Kevin O'Brien, monstered consecutive sixes off the debutant spinner, Scott Borthwick, to give a patient Dublin crowd the treat they had all turned up to see, and to give England an early reminder of the damage he could cause, following that seminal 113 from 63 balls at the World Cup.